What Life is "Supposed to Be"

This question probably has as many answers as there are consciousnesses in existence.  Life for any one consciousness is different than for any other.

Even two atoms of air occupy different spaces, or as waves have variously differing vibrations and spaces in which they are operating.

And yet, atoms come together as molecules, and though these slight differences persist, there are also similarities in function.

moving up to humanity...we are inundated with so much information guiding our consciousness as to what life is "supposed to be"....

And yet, the reality of our private lives rarely matches this supposedly idealistic goal. Nor do even our desires.  

We are inundated with so much information...is there even enough time in a day to manifest the world programs that seems to be fighting for and enlisting as many as possible to produce the goals of these vast social agendas masquerading as personal ideals?